Using Body Language To Create Attraction In Women
You need to create attraction right off the start or you will end up being in the "nice guy" or "just friends category" and there is very little chance that you will be able to get out of it.
I'm sure you seen it all from being cocky and funny, being the bad guy to being self assured and in control of your life. All these ideas are valid, but they don't talk about the one vital ingredient that will either get you rejected or will create immediate attraction.
Women will classify you as a winner or as a loser within a few seconds of first seeing you. She will immediately decide if you are the type of guy that has a chance of getting her into the sack or not.
Do you know what she is basing her decision on?
It's called body language.
Women are naturals at reading body language. They will read a thousand things about you from every little thing you do, from how you smile, stand, and walk.
Within a minute of meeting you she will decide either decide that you are confident, considerate, fun and a good catch or that you have low self esteem, are selfish, boring and a total loser.
Why not take advantage of the fact that she's going to make up her mind about you before you've even opened your mouth?
You can fake body language to a certain point, and at first that's just what you may need to do, but there's a better way.
Become the type of person that women are attracted to in the first place, and let your natural body language speak for itself.
Develop the right personality traits and women will naturally be attracted to you, and you wouldn't need to rely on a bunch of silly tricks and pick up lines that she's seen and heard a thousand times before.
Here's a list of traits that you should start working on.
* Confidence without being arrogant.
* Consideration for others without being a pushover
* Assertive without being bossy
* Respectful and nice without being a wimp.
* Witty and funny without being the class clown.
* Happy
* Healthy. You don't have to ripped, but on the same token you don't want to look like you about to die.
* Energetic. This kind of goes with being healthy.
* Intelligent. This doesn't mean you need a university degree, just that you can carry on an intelligent conversation.
* Neat and clean. Don't be a slob, no matter what you may think it's not attractive.
* Responsible.
* A certain level of financial stability. This shows responsibility.
* Hard to get. You are the prize not her. (careful that you don't turn this into arrogance and disdain for women)
Use what ever means you can to develop as many of these traits as you can, and it will show. You will have no trouble attracting women if you can be the type of man that has at least some of them. They will notice you as soon as you walk into the room.
No amount of tricks or silly lines are going to create attraction. It's your personality and how it shows through your body language that's going to make or break you, so develop the right personality.
by GARY CAINE
