5 Sex Position Mistakes You Need To Fix Tonight
Have you ever noticed how a group of women will start talk about sex after a few drinks?
Well if you haven't, then you should be aware...
If you pay close attention, you'll realize that women will always brag (or complain) about the sex partners in their lives.
So let this be a warning...
If you're not 'rocking her world' then your poor sexual techniques could be the next topic of conversation.
Scary thought, right?
The good news is there are a few simple ways to adapt your technique and become the best sex part she's ever had. Now the best place to start is the positions you choose to use during sex.
If you can identify a few things you might be doing wrong, and learn to make adjustments, you'll instantly become a great sexual partner. Here are 4 mistakes you could be making and how to fix them:
Sex Position Mistake #1- Going hard and fast
A lot of guys think going fast and hard during sex is the best way to please a woman. Because of the influence from pornography, some men think hard sex is the answer for a great sex session.
While sometimes fast-paced sex is fun, you should still take time and pay attention to her needs. So don't try to imitate your favorite porn movie. You'll only end up looking like an idiot.
Sex Position Mistake #2- Using the same old position
Okay, we all have that trusted position we love.
But I have to tell you, if you're always doing the same thing over and over, things will become boring really quickly.
Instead of reverting to the same position, try varying things. Sex is the time for fun, so don't be afraid to experiment and try new things out.
Sex Position Mistake #3- Getting too fancy
While the Kama Sutra is a fun book to read, you shouldn't try to implement every position listed in this manual. In my opinion, this book isn't the best place to learn about lovemaking. Sex isn't about trying to bend you partner in every conceivable position.
To become a great lover, you don't have to try anything fancy or use 1001 sex positions. All you have to do is stick to the quality positions and focus on pleasing her.
Sex Position Mistake #4- Letting her do all the work
One of the best positions is when a woman is on top. While this is a great time to let her control the pacing and action, you shouldn't use it as opportunity to "take a break". Laying there like a dead fish will do nothing for her needs.
So if you want to maximize this position, you can stimulate her erogenous areas and run your hands over her body. She'll love being on top if you're working to please her at the same time.
Sex Position Mistake #5- Being afraid of controlling things
Many men view sex with nervousness and fear. So if you're one of those guys who approaches sex with trepidation, she'll be quickly turned-off.
For instance, if you're always worrying about her pleasure during sex or asking "is this good?", you'll be viewed as a weak person. And if you act like a wuss in the bedroom, you'll lose a lot of respect from her.
The one truth about life is men are attracted to women who act like women. Conversely women are strongly drawn to men who act like MEN. So if you're a weak person in the bedroom, she'll start to treat like this.
In order to become an incredible sex partner, you have to quickly identify and fix the mistakes you're making in the bedroom. When know how to please a woman, you'll become the guy the kind of man a woman will brag about.
by Scott Patterson
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