News flash…sticking your fingers in there just isn't going to do the job!
Read below for some tips on how to get her off with your finger.
•First, show her you are a hygienic individual and give your hands a thorough washing. She isn't going to want your gritty hands in her.
•Set the mood and start by kissing her and touching her all over. This is more likely to get her aroused. Lightly rub your hands all around her body. Rub her breasts, stomach, up and down her legs, and then slowly work your way to her vagina.
•Keep teasing her by gently rubbing your hands all over her. Get started with some lubricant or cream. The Nipple and Clit Stimulating Gel is fantastic as it heightens sensitivity around the vaginal area and it also makes it easier to insert your fingers into her vagina.
•Gently rub all over her clitoris and vagina. Remember to keep paying attention to the clitoris as this is the golden spot with most girls. Keep using lube, as the coolness of it makes the area even more sensitive, and your hands will gradually keep absorbing what you initially put on.
•Gently rub up and down the clitoris. Circular motions are also good. Keep kissing her at the same time.
•Move your fingers down to her vagina. Slowly insert one finger in. You may want to put some more lube on her or your finger at this stage.
•Gently move your finger in and out. You will get a feel for what she likes by the noises she makes. Encourage her to communicate with you while you are doing it. She might want you to vary the finger action by moving your fingers back to the clitoris.
•Try putting two fingers in at a time. Again, more lube might be necessary. When your fingers are inserted in her, try to reach the g-spot by gently curving your middle finger towards her belly button. For some women, this is their special spot. Really encourage her to communicate with you so you don't continue if she feels any discomfort. Tell her to move your fingers to where she wants so she is gaining the most pleasure.
•Wiggle your finger around and see how she responds. Encourage her to guide you and tell you want she likes.
•While your fingers are in her, try putting your thumb on her clitoris so she has pressure on two pleasure points. You will know by her reaction what she likes and what not.
•Some things to remember. Don't just shove your finger in her and expect her to enjoy it. Get to know what she likes, this is through practice and communication. Remember to keep paying attention to the clitoris.
•Vary what you do. Quick and slow motions, soft and harder touches. Clitoris and G-Spot orgasms will occur through fingering when done properly.
•Finger sleeves are fun to try. The sleeve fit over your finger and the different textures of the sleeves means she gets different sensations in the vagina.
•Remember, communication is the key. Ask her what she likes, the experience will be much better if you tell each other what works and what doesn't.
by Suzie Harris
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Sometimes a woman can achieve a really intense orgasm right away, yet there are also times when nothing seems to even reach close to that point. A woman’s body may sometime react inconsistently. There are literally thousands of variables that can, and do, affect the ease and intensity of a woman’s orgasms during sex: hormonal phases of the menstrual cycle, energy levels, feelings toward her partner, how hot or how cold she is, or the amount of food or alcohol she has consumed that night are just a few. Sex research shows that people consistently report achieving their fastest, most intense orgasms through masturbation. Perhaps this has to do with the fact that during masturbation a person is focused solely on her own pleasure, rather than on how she looks or how her partner is feeling. 
