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Just what is it? And is it for real? Well I'm here to tell you that it can happen, although it does take a bit of practice. In case you didn't know, the prostate gland is a walnut sized gland located just under the bladder. It can be felt by placing a finger 2-3 inches into the anus, although it is protected by a membrane i.e. you cannot touch it directly. The role of the prostate is to add fluid to the semen.

The prostate gland has a mystique quite unique as compared to the other parts of the male body. Ancient Indian tantric texts refer to this gland as the 'sacred spot' the centre of a man's emotions and sexuality; containing deep feelings of acceptance, nurturing and masculinity.

Why not introduce some a bit of intrigue and adventure into the bedroom through prostate ejaculate massage.

To begin the man should be relaxed and clean. Make sure that the bowels and bladder are emptied and have a shower or bath alone or with your lover.

If you are giving him a prostate ejaculate massage - keep the following points in mind:

1. Start with a relaxing body massage if he is stressed.

2. Ask him to sit with back supported and knees raised a bit to allow easy access to the anus, after removing clothing.

3. Encourage him to breathe slowly and deeply to relax, co-ordinate your breathing to create feelings of intimacy.

4. Gently apply water based lubricant to the anal opening with a latex glove. Add some lubricant to the finger and gently press against anus until the muscles relax and allow the finger in.

5. Gently enter 2-3 inches , until you feel a small bump. Stroke the prostate gland, gently press it or massage it. Get feedback from him as to what works.

6. If sensations are strong, slow down or stop and encourage him to continue to breathe, slowly and deeply. This reduces the intensity of the stimulation and prolongs pleasure and arousal.

7. Either he or you can stimulate the lingam or just continue to focus on the prostate bringing him close to climax but stopping short a number of times. (Remember: climax is not the goal, but it's always a happy ending.)

Prostate ejaculate massage cannot only be novel but also adds excitement to your lovemaking as most men are not used to a sexually submissive role, and one which involves trust and intimacy can really add to the excitement. Also removing any need to perform, this massage can also be a great way for him to just sit back and enjoy!

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by: Maya Silverman
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Women are mysterious creatures. While they're great at displaying emotions, often they'll hide their hidden desires. And this is especially true when it comes to what they like in the bedroom.

The truth is women have many secrets about what they like AND what they don't like from guys during sex. Probably right at this moment, your woman really wants you to do things during sex which you are not aware of. If you can discover her hidden desires, then you'll rock her world.

To get an idea of what I'm talking about, here are 5 of the most common sex secrets she probably will never reveal to you:

Secret #1- She doesn't want you to go for hours

Many guys think the key to pleasing a woman is to have the sexual stamina of a marathon runner and go for hours. The problem is women get tired (and sore) during a long sex session. Secretly your woman wants you know please her without subjecting her to a lengthy sex session. If you can please her in a half an hour, then she really won't care if you can go for hours.

Secret #2- She sometimes wants sex, not romance

While all women profess a love for romantic lovemaking filled with candles and soft music, sometimes they want sex to be a little dirty. Even though romance is an important part of the sexual experience, there are often moments when you can score some serious points simply by acting in a VERY non-romantic manner. For instance, she'll sometimes wants you to simply rip her clothes off and have a quickie.

Secret # - She wants YOU to be in control

It's a simple truth. Women want to be with men who act like MEN. This means you should never behave in a lower status man and act like you don't know what you're doing in the bedroom. Simply put, you have to act like a man when you're having sex.

Being a man is about knowing the specific things which pleases your woman and then DOING them. So when you're in the bedroom, don't act timid or shy. Instead give off the aura that you're completely confident during sex and you're in complete control of her pleasure.

Secret #4- She wants to try new things

There are a lot of different sexual experiences your woman secretly wants. Whether it's a bit of roleplaying, threesomes or even the "big A", she's probably privately fantasizing about stuff you can do with her (or to her). The important thing to remember is everybody has fantasies. Your job is to coax them out of her and then work hard to fulfill them.

Secret #5- She wants it in the morning

Guys are known for the ability to be ready for sex in 3.5 seconds. Women on the other hand profess a desire for extensive foreplay. That's the reason why many guys think women don't want a "quickie" in the morning. However the truth is a lot of women secretly want a bit of sex in the morning before they start the day. Simply try to initiate things in the morning and you'll be surprised at her response.

Women have lots of secrets they keep from men. But if you can reveal her secret desires in the bedroom then you'll quickly become her perfect lover.

So look for the warning signs of the 5 secrets I discussed in this article, and you'll be on your way towards sexually pleasing her.

by Scott Patterson
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Sexual Tantric touching is a great 'bonding time' activity with your partner. Engage in it and you'll benefit from more than just physical pleasure.

Tantric touching is a great part of Tantric sex. It forms as a great primer to hours upon hours of lovemaking. Since it's such an important element, you need to make time for it. You cannot just ask your woman to lie down and be touched! You need to set a time and place for tantric touching. Sexual Tantric touching is a great 'bonding time' activity with your partner. Engage in it and you'll benefit from more than just physical pleasure. Tantric Touching Tips Here are some tips that will surely heighten the level of sexual touching for you and your woman. Touching is not only done with the hands. Sure, you can start the session with light touches like touching her toes and/or closed eyelids with just your fingertips but don't be limited with just using your hands. You can use your wrists, your arms, your legs or even your whole upper body! Tantric touching examples: - Dab a little scented oil on the insides of your wrists and rub your wrists together. Now glide your wrists on either side of her face, from her forehead to her chin and back again. Apply little pressure, the scent of the oil and the silky touch of your wrists should relax her mind. - Ask her or position her arms above her head. Using the length of your arms, run them along the side of her body. If you're a bit hairy, all the better; the different texture will feel good on her smooth body. - Ask her to lie face down. Put some scented oil or massage oil on your upper body and glide against her bare back. Be careful not to put all your weight on her! Touching can be as soft, light, or rough as you guys want it to be. Touching can mean many things. It can mean feathery like running a single fingertip from her collarbones to her belly or a bit harder like using your nails and (mildly!) scratching her arms. Tantric touching examples: - Use your fingers and TAP on her forearms. - Use your whole hands and RUB her back (or front if your naughty). - Use your nails and lightly scratch her bare buttocks. Tantric touching should make use of different intensities. Try to alternate between light and hard strokes or
touches. However, make the transitions slow. Don't just rub her back and then immediately run a fingertip on over her spine. You want her to relax, not tense up! Tantric touching should be done when you BOTH feel up to it. One very important tip is this: don't force tantric touching to happen. Tantric sex is all about giving and receiving so if either one of you (or worse, both) are too tired to engage in tantric touching, then simply re-schedule! No pressures remember? Tantric touching tenet: there are no 'orgasmic' goals. Keep in mind that tantric touching does not have to necessarily culminate in reaching an orgasm. Again, it's bonding time so if you guys reach an orgasm, great! If not, that's great too. Focus your mind on what you're doing NOW - touching and exploring each other's bodies - and not on any later sexual goals. Don't be ashamed to use props. Tantric touching can incorporate so many things! It can include different types of fabric (e.g., satin, silk, cotton, velvet, etc.), different pillow sizes, and even some select food items. Don't be ashamed to let your imaginations run wild. Role playing has its place in Tantric touching. If it helps you both, you can crate your own scenes and situations. Just don't forget to imagine the flow of energy between the two of you two. For example, as you run your hand against her thighs, imagine the warm, tingly energy flowing from your body into her thighs (or vice versa). It's ok to take breaks... but try not to break contact. Sometimes, breaks are necessary during Tantric touching. For instance, she might have reached an orgasm and touching her erotically further may not be a good idea. In this case, simply change the pressure, rhythm and location of your touch and give her a few minutes to 'come down to earth'. However, is possible, don't break skin contact. Continue to touch her with your fingertips or ensure your knee is in contact with her leg, etc. Also since Tantric touching can last for hours, it's not a bad idea to have a decanter of wine or pitcher of water, and some food items (e.g., fruit, cheese, etc.) nearby.

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by Gabrielle
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